The Bank account

Dennis Fehling and his best buddies

Hi everyone, I hope you and your dogs are doing well. The topic for today is the Bank Account. What does banking have to do with your dog? Well I am glad you asked as it is a very important thing between you and your dog. From the day you bring your dog home either from a breeder as a puppy or as an older dog from a shelter or a rescue that bank account starts. We have so many opportunities to add to that account by giving them a safe loving home, a good diet, training, enrichment, proper veterinary care and our patience. Each time you make a deposit in that relationship bank account it prepares both of you for the day when you have to make a withdrawal from that account. You might ask what is a withdrawal? a withdrawal is anytime you have to expose your dog to something he/she finds punishing. An example of a withdrawal might be nail trims. If you have not prepared your dog for nail trims then you are making a withdrawal. If you have to take your dog to the vet for shots or an exam and you have not prepared your dog for the exam and the shots you are making a withdrawal.

These types of withdrawals are a normal part of a dogs life but if we were to ask the dogs they might say ” I really do not want to do this” for some dogs nail trims can be very traumatic, for some dog going to the vet depending on how the other visits have gone can also be very traumatic. If we have dogs these are things that we have to do for their overall health and welfare.

There are other types of withdrawals that I need to talk about and can be a bit of a touchy subject depending on the person and their dog. The withdrawals are in the form of punishment. To be clear there are many types of punishment that can be inflicted on dogs. Punishment can be as simple as saying no to your dog all the way to physically abusing a dog. One persons opinion of what punishment is can be totally different from another depending the circumstance. One example of a punishment withdrawal from the relationship bank account might be you ask your dog to sit and they do not do it and you get angry and say ” what a stupid dog you are”

I am not sure if your dog knows what the term stupid dog means but they do know what your body language and tone of voice is saying and they might respond by trying to appease you which can look like a tail tuck, a lip lick, a stress shake or even walking away from you and hiding. How do we build that account back up. When you and your dog are together again give you dog another chance and reward your dog for even trying and start practicing sits more in different environments that are not so distracting. I have seen some of the best trained dogs not even be able to sit depending how stressful the environment is. We might think of that dog as stubborn when in fact they are stressed and have not been prepared for that task.

On the extreme end of punishment might be if a dog is severely corrected for growling at another dog or child by using shock, choke, yelling. Depending on how full your bank account is with your dog the withdrawal might just put you in the red with your dog. In my honest opinion there is never a need to severely punish a dog by using physical force. If this happens a lot then that relationship bank account is depleted as the amount of withdrawals are more than the deposits. The relationship with your dog will continue to deteriorate and it might be next to impossible to rebuild.

Lets talk about how you can make deposits in that relationship account. I believe our dogs love just spending time with us whether it is going on a long walk, training. camping, individual time alone, playing with them Etc, Etc. We have so many opportunities to build that relationship account so if we have to make a withdrawal it is not as hard on our dogs or us. Every time you reward your dog for good behavior the account gets fuller. Let’s say you come home and your dog doesn’t jump on you. That is a great opportunity to add to the account. You and your dog are walking and see another dog and your dog looks at you, this is another opportunity to reward your dog for good behavior and build that account. I could go on all day about ways to reward you dog for good behavior and keeping that account full but then I will need a publisher.

Just remember in closing that the more you add to the relationship account between you and your dog when you have to make a withdrawal it will be much easier to get it back to where it should be. OK, get out there and make some deposits.

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You always have a choice

I recently started working with a dog whose name I will protect because he is innocent. This dog came from a very high kill shelter in another part of the country and was adopted by my client. My client soon discovered that his dog was not very good with other dogs and had actually bitten another dog while doing an introduction between his dog and another dog at his home. The bite was very quick and did not do much damage but a bite is still a bite. my client then sought out professional help for his dogs aggression towards other dogs as well as his reactivity to children. my client had no idea of what to expect other than he needed help

My client told me that the trainer put his dog in a small room with a muzzle that was not conditioned or trained in anyway to his dog and was then surrounded by two small dogs, one of the dogs immediately mounted my clients dog. His dog just shut down because he probably felt he had no choice. From there it got much worse for my client and his dog. The trainer recommended they go to a local dog park with a muzzle on his dog, the trainer then brought my clients dog pretty close to the park and when my clients dog would look at a dog or dogs he hit the dog with bean bags, my client asked why he needed to do that? The trainer said that this was what was needed to break his dogs bad habits around dogs. It did not work.

The next phase of the training was to take his dog around kids to stop his aggression towards children. This time the dog was forced to watch children while being hit with you guessed it more bean bags. The kids were with their teacher and the teacher screamed at the trainer and asked what in the hell he was doing? The trainer said he was doing his job and it was none of her business, she called the police. There was so much wrong with this training I could write a book about it but I wanted to make a point that not only did the dog learn that kids and dogs are not safe to be around but the kids also learned that dogs were not safe to be around. This did not need to happen but my client did not know what else to do. I felt sorry for everyone involved as it could have been a great opportunity if my client knew he had more choices.

There has to be a point when you know what you are doing is completely wrong and stop and think about what you are doing. What this trainer did made no sense and has made this dog much worse. I am thankful my client has chosen to go a different way to help his dog thus the title of the story, you always have a choice. If it does not feel right then question the trainer and their methods, before the trainer puts you and your dog into a situation where you know your dog cannot handle it then you also have a choice by telling the trainer that your dog is not ready for this. Be the voice for your dog because they do not have one, question the trainers methods and their intentions before they ever work with your dog. Just because they say they are dog trainers doesn’t mean anything if they are not willing to discuss their methods with you and give references freely and have you and your dogs best interest first and foremost. remember you always have a choice when it comes to who is going to work with you and your dogs, you do not need permission to make that choice.

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The problem with hands

My inspiration for many years Meika.  Thanks for helping me to be a better teacher.

I recently started working with a new client and her dog.  The dog’s original owner passed away and was left with the sister.  This dog is the inspiration for this story.  I will not post names to protect the innocent( the dog’s) I was told that this dog was very shy of hands and had bitten several people even though this dog was toothless I am sure if he had teeth the bites would have been bad.  I met with my client and talked about her goals and about the dogs history with other dogs and people.  my client had been given all sorts of really bad advise as far as training for her new dog from squirting water in the dogs face to hitting the dog if he protested for grooming.  The person who had the dog before my client had groomed this dog in front of my client, she would pull out his ear hairs and eye brow hairs with tweezers and if the dog protested he was hit.  She cut his ear really bad and instead of treating the injury she pinched his ear until he screamed.  My client felt very uneasy about this approach which is why she sought out help of a more positive nature.

When I first met this dog I wanted him to feel safe so I immediately started playing a game with him called treat and retreat, a game I play with every new dog I meet regardless of what the issue is.  This very simple game helps to form some kind of a positive meeting and relationship between the dogs and myself before we start working.  I found this little guy to be very hand shy. Even though he has no teeth I treated him with the respect of a shark.  Hands are supposed to be a safe thing for dogs not a prediction of pain or punishment which is what this little guy had a lot of in his life when it came to handling.  it is very important that we teach new puppies that hands are predictable forms of reinforcement and not pain.  Still some in the pet care industry insist on doing some pretty rude things to very young puppies when it comes to normal mouthing.  One local vet told a puppy class client to grab the puppies lower jaw and squeeze really hard until the puppy let go and after the puppy screamed in protest.  Whatever happened to “do no harm”?  fortunately there are more great vets that do no harm then then the opposite and since the creation of the fear free vet visits and that certification it is getting better, just not fast enough for me and for a lot of puppies and dogs out there.

Since my first visit with my client her dog is doing much better with handling and his dog reactivity, I can touch his body and tell when he has had enough becasue he is learning he has other choice to ask for distance from the human hand which he did not know before.  I want to thank my client and her dog for being the inspiration for this story.  Remember hands can be a great tool for healing or a tool for injury.  Also remember that your dog is capable of hurting you everyday and chooses not too becasue of many different things which are beyond the scope of the story.  Please if you feel the need to ever hit your dog remember that fact that this animal could hurt you but could also save your life in an emergency.  Teach your dog or any animal that hands are safe and not to be feared, practice safe handling and give the same respect to your dog, cat horse or whatever you have and the rewards will be many.  Teach your dog that hands are not safe and you will get what you might not expect.

Thank you to Micha for being the inspiration for this story.



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Not my dog!!!

This is my girl Meika.

This is something I have been struggling with for quite some time.  If it were not for some recent clients and their struggles I may have chosen not to share our experience.  I cannot remember a time in my life where dogs have not been a huge part of my life.  I have been blessed with so many great dogs that I have shared my life with and worked with.  I have only been bitten once in my life by a stray dog because I believe I learned at a very young age to respect all animals and not push them to the point where they will bite.  I also have worked with enough dogs hopefully be able to read them pretty well. A couple of years ago we adopted a very large boy named Jax.  Jax had not been socialized to many people in his life so at first glance he was pretty afraid of new people.  His previous homes were not the best fit for Jax although he was loved sometimes that is just not enough.  We decided to adopt him to our family.  We had his brother Cole who had been with us for 4 years and we had the room and the time to help Jax.  Things were going pretty well, we had introduced Jax to several new people as well as other dogs and he did pretty good.  Initially he was very afraid of car rides and after about 6 months of working with him he was much more comfortable and seemed to enjoy the trips.  Jax was also involved in helping us work with other dogs as in many way’s he was a lot like his brother Cole who is very adept at reading other dogs and their needs.  We thought a Job for jax would be great.  During the time we had him he worked with about 4 dogs and was a great help.

Looking back at some things we just did not think were very important have hit me like a freight train since we lost him. Now for the rest of the story.  It was march of 2017.  I was getting  ready to go work with a client and had just got our of the shower and dressed.  I came into the kitchen and saw my wife Pam running towards our driveway.  Then I heard a scream both human and dog.  I ran out of the door to see Jax attacking our older Aussie Flash.  He had a very tight hold of Flashes back end and Pam was on top of Flash to make sure Jax could not get to his neck.  I yelled at Jax to no avail that is when it suddenly turned into a life threatening attack to Pam.  Jax had let go of Flash and had Pam by the leg and was picking her up off the ground like she weighed nothing. He was violently shaking Pam by the leg and was not going to let her go.  I grabbed Jax by the collar and tried to get him off of Pam.  After what seemed like an eternity he finally let go then started circling both Pam and Flash barking very loudly.  I was able to get a hold of him and take him the the house so I could see how bad Pam was hurt. When I got to Pam she was in shock and bleeding very badly from her leg wound.  I got the bleeding stopped and we were off to the hospital.  Pam had to drive herself which was no easy task.  I could not leave Jax alone with the rest of the dogs who were trying to figure out what had happened.  I loaded jax into my car and we were off to the hospital.

Pam was seen right away which was a huge relief.  The attending doctor said that in 30 years of practicing emergency medicine he had never seen a bite so bad. He told Pam that she would never have full feeling of her leg becasue of the trauma done to her.  I knew she was in good hands so I want to check on Jax n the car.  He was pacing and drooling and very stressed.  I knew what had to be done still it was not an easy choice.  I made an appointment to have Jax humanely put to sleep.  Because of the nature of the attack and the bite itself which was a level 6 on the Dunbar scale I knew that Jax would not be able to be around Pam or the other dogs again and re-homing him was not an option.  I did not tell Pam what I had done until it was done as she was very upset and did not Blame jax.  Pam and I are very experienced dog people and have never experienced an attack from our own dogs before.  Needless to say this surprised us so much I immediately thought what did we do wrong?  Jax was loved, he was healthy, he got plenty of exercise and enrichment so why did this happen?

I also knew if I had not been at home Jax would have killed Pam and probably some of our other dogs.  I have heard all of my life as well as in my professional career that ” it just happened out of the blue and there was no warnings signs” I always tell my clients that behavior just does not happen for no reason.  There is something in the background that is causing it.  After the attack I started trying to figure out what might have caused it to escalate so fast to the point where our own dog attacked so viciously.  Pam later told me that she had been walking the dogs like usual for their daily 2 miles and everything was going good like usual.  She said that Flash went over by a tree on our property and all of a sudden yelped.  She said at that point Jax came from about 300 feet and attacked Flash.  Was this an unprovoked attack or something that had been building for months.  Out of all the dogs we had Jax and Flash had the most I would say uneasy relationship.  On many occasions Flash would be quietly chewing on a bone or chew toy and Jax would go over to him and bark in his face.  Flash did his best to ignore Jax and I would step in and provide the exact same toy for Jax but that was not enough as he wanted the toy that Flash had and he was not going to stop until he got that one toy.  Flash was not about to give it up and I think this frustrated Jax a lot.  This happened several times and I thought a long as it is not escalating it was not that big of a deal. Looking back on this now it was that big of a deal to Jax.  His frustration with Flash finally hit a boiling point and he took his opportunity to attack him.

We had left both of these dog’s alone several times with no incidence, they had never physically fought.  I do believe that out of Jax’s frustration that is why the attack occurred and Pam was just in his way of getting to Flash and taking him out.  This was a redirected bite to Pam and I believe it was not personal.   The point of sharing this story is that I made some very bad errors in noticing Jax and Flash and their interactions and maybe this could have been prevented or not we will never know.  I know that dogs will be dogs but when they attack their humans that is when it gets very scary.  After all we love them, we feed them, we care for them, and provide shelter and safety but I feel that is not enough. I guess the point of this story is that it can happen to anyone at anytime so do not take your dogs behavior for granted as at any given time a tragedy can happen.  This was very painful for both Pam and I and have told very few people about what happened as not only was it a very personal thing but for awhile made me feel like a really bad trainer and care giver to my own dogs becasue I did not take the steps to make sure it did not happen.  I do believe that even if I would have taken a different path with Jax and Flash it still could have becasue after all they are dogs and if you have been around them long enough nothing really surprises you.  This really surprised us becasue it was so vicious and what we though unprovoked on someone that loved Jax and was always kind to him.  If this story causes you to look at your dogs in a different way and their interactions then i have done my job.  if I could talk to jax now I would say ” you were loved, cared for and are still missed a lot by us and your dog family.  RIP big man.

This is Jax

This is Jax.


Dennis Fehling

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Distractions Distraction Distractions

This is my girl Meika.



Hello Everyone, this is a topic I have been wanting to write about for sometime now as I feel it is an important one to think about.

Recently my wife Pam and I along with our dog Cole were at a brew pup in Bend Oregon.  I really love this place not only because they have really good beer, food  they also allow well behaved dogs.  It can get pretty crowded there but it is worth the wait.  Our dog Cole went under the table out of the sun and knowing that sooner or later I would more than likely drop a piece of my food by accident  and he would be able to share my meal with me.  As we were waiting for our drinks and food I noticed a young couple with a child at the table across from us.  The couple were texting on their phones, nothing out of the ordinary here you say until I noticed how really checked out they both were from their daughter who was repeatedly trying to get their attention to no avail.  Then their waitress went to their table and she got the same response.  She waited patiently for at least 20 seconds until they finally realized she was there, she had been put on ignore mode along with their daughter.  I thought how  distracted we have become as human beings by these little powerful devices that seem to hypnotize us in a moments notice, they cause some of us to cause accidents and in some really bad cases kill others becasue of the power these little objects have over us.  We rely on our cell phones for everything from ordering food, keeping in touch with friends and family, business calls,  games, the internet.  It’s no wonder our dogs are feeling left behind in the modern world.  I can remember a time when we were with our dogs we were really with them.  When we were training them we were actually engaged with them.  I remember a time when taking a walk with our dogs was an actual walk.  Today while I was running stairs, one of my favorite stress relievers I noticed a woman and her child walking on a path called the dry canyon trail in Redmond.  The woman pushing a stroller with a baby was texting on her phone while her toddler was at least 300 feet away from her.  How can she have been possibly more disconnected to her own child than that.  So many things might have happened to this your child I don’t even want to think about it.


What does this have to do with dog training you might ask?  Well it has everything to do with dog training and distractions.  We expect our dogs who do not have cell phones to do what we want, when we want it and do it perfectly while in distracting environments they have not been trained in yet but at the same time we do not hold ourselves to the same standards as far as really paying attention to our environment becasue of everything that is demanding our attention, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, linkedin all of these amazing tools at our disposal our slowly conditioning us to check out of the real world for the imaginary one where we can be anything and anyone we want, the more likes we get the more  glued we are to the screen.  My point to all this is that I challenge those of you that have kids and dogs to actually be with them with they are with you.  When it comes to dogs we only have them for a very short amount of time so in my opinion they deserve at least our undivided attention when we are with them especially when training.  How can we expect them to pay attention to us when one second we are teaching a skill then the next a text becomes more important or a world changing even happens on Facebook.  Believe me people it all can wait.  I am also challenging trainers to make it a rule that unless you have an extreme emergency turn off the cell phone and give your dog that hour, you have 23 more hours in the day that you can hit the like button.  I say when we are with our dogs, families, friends, hit the love button and give them your undivided attention as they could be gone tomorrow.


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Dennis Fehling

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Dark Alleys and the four F’s

This is my girl Meika.

You might ask what in the heck does a title like ” dark alleys and the four f’s have to do with dog training”

Years ago in another life I used to be a martial arts instructor in the Portland Oregon area and when we moved to Central Oregon I had a small school I taught out of my home as a way of keeping in the sport which I had loved for most of my life.  There was a question I would ask some of my students which went something like this. ” if given the choice to go down a dark alley or a lighted pathway which one would you choose?” Most of the students I asked that question responded with “of-course I would choose the lighted pathway”.  Occasionally there was always one that would say they would choose the dark alley.  I always found that to be a bit crazy because if given the choice why would you choose to put your life in danger if you clearly had another choice.  Most of us know why men and women join the military, to serve their country, to travel and to learn some pretty unique skills as well as belonging to a brotherhood and sisterhood of a higher calling.  OK what does all of this have to do with dog training?  I was inspired to write this by one of our long time students who’s dog recently was surprised by someone in a dark outfit carrying a shovel.  I might add this person was on his own property and as fate would have it the two met in this dogs dark alley.  I told my client that this time of the year people look differently than other times of the year, we wear big coats, hats, and our glasses get dark to protect our eye’s from the unrelenting snow we have had this year and because of that snow we carry stuff like shovels, we use loud equipment like snow blowers and for some dogs this is just too much.  I tried to convince my client that under the circumstance this was perfectly normal even though her dog and the man in the dark snow suit knew each other and have interacted as friends many times and that the man just looked different and her dog was surprised by the sudden change in the environment.  In other words this dog was startled and my client was not prepared for her response.

The more we talked about what happened I think she realized that her dog was surprised, the environment suddenly changed and the person that she knew looked totally different then he did in the summer.  I also told her that what her dog was showing was perfectly normal and that it happens to humans all the time.  Most of have been startled and downright scared in our lives unless we have lived our lives in a completely protected environment which I am not sure exist.  I told her that when confronted with an emergency we will do one of the four f’s we will Fight, we will Flee, we will Freeze or we will fool around which can look like pretty much anything out of the context of normal behavior, we might start laughing uncontrollably, we may cry uncontrollably, we may fidget or something that is not compatible with what startled us.  animals are no different they just show it in different ways, a startled animal may fight, they might run away, they might freeze so whatever scared them will not kill them or they might just start sniffing the ground, spin,, jump uncontrollably as a fool around behavior.

We are equipped with very complex nervous systems, one is called the Parasympathetic and the other is the sympathetic nervous system.  The parasympathetic nervous system is one of two divisions of the autonomic nervous system. Sometimes called the rest and digest system, the parasympathetic system conserves energy as it slows the heart rate, increases intestinal and gland activity, and relaxes sphincter muscles in the gastrointestinal tract. The sympathetic nervous system activates what is often termed the fight or flight response. When we make the decision to go down that dark alley even though we know that there might be a possible chance that something might go very wrong, it’s not until that something that goes very wrong happens does our sympathetic system takes over and in come the four f’s.  I myself am thankful for both of these nervous systems as they keep us safe, they help us relax, if we need to fight they allow that to happen and if we need to run away they allow that to happen as well.  Imagine if we were not equipped with these amazing parts of our brain.  Could you imagine a life where you were incapable of feeling fear, there are people like that that suffer with a genetic disorder called William’s syndrome.  Now that would be downright scary.  You could walk to the very edge of a 3500 foot cliff and feel nothing resembling fear, you might engage in pretty crazy behavior like jumping out of an airplane without a parachute or go swimming in a swamp full of man or woman eating alligators.  No thank you,I like my fear or at least the ability to recognize it for what it is as fear keeps us safe or at least paying attention.  It does seem though when a dog shows fear they are automatically labeled aggressive or defective like there must be something wrong with them when what they are afraid of is very real to them just like our fears are very real to us.  Yes fear can lead to aggression just like frustration can but I try and look at the circumstances surrounding that fear and not judge the animal or person for showing it as it is a perfectly normal response.  Lets face it we live in a very scary world, we are bombarded with death and destruction on TV and social media, it’s everywhere.  I may be way off but I do think as a race we have become desensitized to it because it is in our faces every day and is hard to escape.  We can watch a terrorist kill 50 people and yes we are shocked but then a week later it is almost forgotten by most until the next bad thing happens. Our dogs though are not as exposed to all of this as we are and are much more sensitive to changes in the environment and yes they get scared, I think we should ask ourselves the next time our dogs are surprised by a stranger or another dog coming around the corner and they react in a way that under different circumstances  were allowed to have some kind of a warning about the dog or stranger so they could not have such a harsh reaction.  Are we over reacting to a perfectly normal response from that dog.  I think in some cases we are.  In conclusion, if you choose to take your dog down that dark alley whatever their dark alley might be be prepared for one of the four f’s and hopefully choose the lighted pathway the next time.


Dennis Fehling CPDT KA.  CBATI.

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Don’t assume anything!!!

Anyone who knows me is aware that I have a passion not only for dogs in general but helping dogs with aggression.  I recently  was hired by a couple with a very young German Shepherd puppy.  When talking to my client on the phone she was actually in tears because she thought there was no help available for this puppy.  Both her and her husband were told that the puppy needed to be euthanized. they also contacted three trainers and one recommended that in order to teach the puppy who the boss of the house is they needed to tie the puppy up outside of his kennel for 24hours without food or water and that would solve the problem, no wonder she was crying.  How could this recommendation do anything but harm to this 4 month old puppy?  The other day I went to my clients home for the first time and met the puppy and not only was he a very normal puppy he was also very excited to learn new skills, this puppy had a few strikes against him in the health department as well as his overall behavior towards his owners.  He had a very bad yeast  infection in his ears and allergies that caused him to itch non stop.  He also has food allergies and would have pretty bad bouts of diarrhea.  No wonder he was cranky 🙂  Luckily most of these issues are resolved as far as his overall health.  I found him to be a very good at seeking attention by jumping and mouthing when he wanted something, he is very excited by horses and cats as well.  One of the main issues they are having is the puppy will in their words ” attack them very aggressively” during the day.  What I actually observed was pretty much just arousal and normal puppy mouthing and jumping.  My clients told me that they have been raising German Shepherds for a very long time and have never gone through anything like what they are presently going through.

This puppy is from a very long line of working German Shepherds and this is something that my clients did not think about when buying the puppy.  Working lines are very different from other dogs that are bred for just plain family dogs.  In a nutshell my clients were very overwhelmed.  I also found out that this puppy rarely ever got walked and the only exercise was chasing the cat who more than likely did not appreciate this at all.  I think they thought that the puppy would just be happy in the yard running and playing and chasing the cat and they really did not need to do anything but feed and water the puppy like a plant.  Like my clients I have been raising German Shepherds most of my life and have never assumed anything about any of the dogs I have had.  I know that these dogs need jobs and training like all dogs do to be emotionally happy and physically healthy.  Our current German Shepherd Meika was a highly reactive dog to other dogs until I learned how to help her, now she has a  job and it is helping other dogs who are reactive.

I spent about two hours with my clients and their puppy just going over some training basics and impulse control exercises.  I also encouraged them to take walks with this puppy around their  property daily which is perfect for walking and enriching this dogs environment.  We walked around the property about three times pausing a few times to work on the basics.  My clients said to me and I quote ” We have never seen him have so much fun” What I observed was a puppy that really looked like he was doing something totally alien to him.  I asked my clients if they could make this a daily happening with him and they said yes, I said great.  After the walk we went back inside and the puppy calmly went into his kennel by choice and went to sleep.  They said ” he never sleeps during the day and only normally sleeps about 6 hours a day.  No wonder this puppy is excited and anxious.  For his age I told them it is normal for him to be sleeping up to 15 hours a day or at least napping and relaxing.  For the rest of the consultation this puppy was sound asleep and again they said they have never seen him do that.  In my honest opinion I think they did not know that actually walking this pup might help to calm him down.  The point of this story is that we can never assume what we think our clients know about training and behavior.  It is our responsibility as trainers and educators to carefully observe and be objective with our clients and their dogs.  Sometimes it can be such a simple thing as a walk and enriching a dogs environment that really can make all the difference in the lives of our dogs and our clients.


Dennis Fehling CPDT KA,


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Which is the best dog?

This is my girl Meika.

This is my girl Meika.

I am always amazed at the questions I get asked when I tell poeple that we have a dog training business.  Story in point.  My wife Pam and I were hiking a local favorite trail of ours called the Dechutes River Trail in Bend Oregon.  The trial is a 3 mile loop that follows the beautiful Dechutes River with the half way point a bridge overlooking the river.  I try and do the trail at least once a week when I have a moment to get out and enjoy this area. We often run into lots of dogs mostly off leash.  The reason I mention that is that this is an on leash hike but that is for another story. 

As we were on the other half of the hike we were approaching a couple with a dog ( off leash ofcourse) the dog ran up to us waggin it’s tail looking for some attention.  The dog jumped up a few times and the owners triesd to explain it away as the dog is just not very well mannered.  I always tell people when I see a happy dog and they say something negative about their dog ” I spend alot of time working with dogs that are not very happy to see people or other dogs so it is really nice that your dog is a happy dog” I could say something like ” if you spent some time actually training your dog not to jump then you might like yor dog more” but I never say that and only offer a business card and say I would love to work with you and your dog.  On this one occasion with the trail dog the woman asked me because she thought I might be able to share some secret knowledge about dogs in her own words ” which is the best dog?” I thought to myself how in the heck can I answer that when I love all dogs.  I guess it seems that when you are a dog trainer you have some magical insight as to which is the best dog.  I just said to her ” they are all the best dogs”

I thought about this when I got home and have been thinking about this for over two months since since she asked me that question.  I have come up with a few thoughts.  Ok for one you should actually like dogs if you are going to get one, you should be able to spend time with the dog if you are going to get one, you should train the dog if you are going to get one, you should have a conversation with your entire family if you have one and are going to get a dog so there are no surprises, you should pick the right dog for your lifestyle.  Are you an athelete and want a running partner? if so a Basset hound might not be a good choice but a German Shepherd or a Siberian Husky might just fit the bill.  Are you an older person who is not very active? I would not suggest getting a Border Collie or any kind of a young herding breed.  Do you live in an apartment?  If so then a Maltese might be a good choice.  It is all about choice when it comes to getting just the right dog as their is no secret recipe for said dog as in my opinion they are all the best dogs, they just have not found their best person yet.  I am sure of one thing though if you ask the dog they will most surely tell you that you are the best person in the world.


Dennis Fehling

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Consistency in dog training and why it is so important.

Our dogs training me

Our dogs training me

We live in a very confusing world right now with all of the things that vie for our attention and time imaging how hard it must be for our dogs.  They to are constantly having to muddle though all of the information that the human world throws at them. So lets look at consistency in your training.  In our training business we teach a variety of classes, one of the requirements is that the students go through an orientation class which usually last about two hours.  I cover basic learning theory, clicker and verbal marker training and how to solve some basic problems so students leave with the necessary tools to start class.  I can almost count on most of the time only one person from the family will show up and it is usually the female part of the family.  It is the rare occasion that the entire family shows up for the orientation or even any of the classes although it is getting better.   In a perfect world the entire family would be there for each class so everyone is on the same page as far as training their dogs but we do not live in a perfect world so here is where it can get very confusing for the dog.  One person in the family usually the one attending the class will be the consistent one as far as the training.  This person may have a dog that jumps on guest or the family or even strangers on a walk.  Now in that same family there is always going to be that one person where jumping is ok so you can see how this might get confusing for their dog.  It is ok to jump on you but not on me, it is ok to jump on dad but not on mom or the kids.  Or it is never ok to jump on strangers but it is ok to jump on little Bobby’s school friends because Bobby says it’s ok.  By now their dog does not know if they are coming or going.  With jumping which can lead to serious consequences for the dog each member of the family must be on the same page or the jumping will actually get much worse over time because the dog is getting randomly reinforced for the jumping to see who is eventually going to give them attention.  So with this type of non consistency the dog is always the looser because someone is going to punish them.  We simply cannot keep changing the rules with our dogs and expect them to act like we want them to.  My wife and I had a great pet sitter( name withheld to protect the innocent) 🙂 she was with us for almost 8 years.  Our 7 dogs loved her and we trusted her completely.  we had told her that we had a serious jumping problem with one of our dogs also( name withheld to protect the innocent) and if she jumped on her to please do not pet her or give her any attention, we went over the rules as far as what to do when she jumped.  Our dogs jumping was starting to actually hurt people and she would hit them in the nose.  We were making great progress with no jumping on anyone for quite awhile and then our sitter showed up and 6 months of hard work went down the drain.  Not only was she petting her when she was jumping she was feeding her dog biscuits.  We fired her after that sorry to say as she was an excellent sitter and care giver for our dogs but we were very angry that all for this hard work had been for nothing even after many repeated phone calls and attempts to let the sitter know that this was becoming a very serious problem she never just could keep her hands off.

Ok lets look at another thing that is very common, leash pulling.  This can be a nightmare for some people and I have actually heard of dogs being surrendered for this.  It is not hard to teach a dog to not pull on the leash but how can we expect them to  be consistent when we are not consistent? One person in the family absolutely needs their dog to walk nicely on a leash then the other person lets their dog pull them all over the place not realizing how confusing this is for the dog.  One person might use a harness while the other will refuse.  But now the dog is so confused that it’s a wonder they can even go for a walk.  The other night in class we had a great little dog that has been in our puppy classes and is in our adolescent manners class for older dogs.  This little girl will start to shut down after about five minutes and not do anything.  We were working on some stay exercises and I noticed that she was just checking out so I put my client and her dog in a little pen area so they could work off leash.  Now we were getting somewhere.  I asked my client if she ever practiced any of the behaviors with the leash on and she said no we do not.  My client then took of her dogs harness and I asked her why she did that.  She said that she never walks her with it unless she is in class.  I told her that if you never practice any of the behaviors outside of class or even walk her in her harness outside of class how is her dog supposed to get proficient in the behaviors.  I give out specific homework for each class and it is pretty easy to do.  It never fails that most do not practice and then expect their dogs to be able to perform around other dogs and distractions in class.  This has to be very confusing for their dogs as when at home they do not have to do what is asked of them  then once a week in class they are expected to do what is asked of them.  I get confused just thinking about it.  This happens with the clicker as well, the students never use it at home then come to class and for an hour and a half the clicker is used so it’s no wonder that the dogs are not paying attention.

Another confusing thing for dogs is our verbal cues and hand cues.  One person say’s sit with a verbal and hand signal the way they are taught then another family member uses neither and just pushes the dogs butt to the ground so now we are getting unreliable sits because the rules are changing.  Our dogs are constantly paying attention to our body language so they are noticing everything we are doing.  For instance if you have a very small dog and when they are puppies you teach a sit while you are bending over to be able to reach the puppy this becomes part of the sit cue, now you have a dog that will only sit when you are bending over.  The owners get very frustrated because they know that their dog knows how to sit so they keep repeating what they want and the dog just gets more confused.  I hope you can see where this is going for your dogs sake.

Another huge one is one member of the family will feed the dog from the table while the other one punishes the dog for begging.  This is not fair for the dog as once again the rule change from person to person. When mom is home the dog gets fed from the table or when he/she begs.  Now dad comes home and the dogs goes to him for a morsel and  gets punished for begging at the table.  I could go on and on about all oft he things that keep changing for our dogs.  The reason I felt I had to write this is I see this so much and am really noticing how stressed our dogs are becoming in an ever changing world of changing rule for our dogs.  So if this accomplishes anything I have made my point.  It is already confusing enough for our dogs and other animals so please be consistent in your training and you will see more consistency in your dogs.

Dennis Fehling CPDT KA

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Are puppy classes making it harder?

Dennis and His old buddy Beau

Recently I got a call from a potential client.  I had met him about a month ago when he came into observe our puppy class.  He has a 12 week old Yellow Labrador Retriever female.  I told him that our puppy classes are on Monday nights which at the time he said it might work for him.  I did not hear from him for a couple of weeks then got a call asking when the classes were again.  I told him that they are on Monday nights.  He said at this time he could not make our class and did I have a recommendation for another trainer in the area.  I told him that there was another person doing puppy classes and is a positive trainer.  I have never observed their puppy classes but I figured that at least it was something.  I got a call from him a couple of days ago and asked me if we could do some private sessions.  I asked him if he had gone to the other puppy class and he said yes he had gone two three classes and it was not working for his puppy and in fact his puppy was much better before he started the class.  I asked him what was going on?  He said that his 15 week old puppy is now barking and lunging at any dog she sees. Keep in mind that this is a 15 week old puppy that did not do this before the puppy class.  So do we know what might have caused this?

I have observed many puppy classes some better than others and some just plain bad.  Some of the worst ones I have seen is where puppies are just put in a cage with other puppies and are allowed what looks like a UFC (ultimate fighting match) for puppies.  Of course the puppies are not getting hurt intentionally but are learning lessons for other puppies that can affect them for the rest of their lives.  They are learning rough play with no influence from their owners.  You also know that there are puppies that are so afraid that they just want to leave the group and get as far away from the other puppies as they can.  What other lessons are they learning? I think they are learning  a lot about frustration and that all dogs are supposed to play like this so when they are out for their walks they see other dogs and what might look like and aggressive display is nothing more than frustration which has been learned in puppy class.  Now we are regularly seeing clients that are very frustrated that their dogs can’t even be walked around other dogs.  Their puppies see other dogs and are not capable of doing anything that the owner wants.  If you are going to teach a puppy class or are taking your puppy to class you need to find the most experienced person to teach this class because what happens in puppy class can affect your puppy for the rest of their lives.  Look for a puppy class that is not overwhelming for the puppy or client, get references from other people in the area how their puppies as adult dogs are around other dogs and where did they take their class.  Don’t rely on the certifications of the trainer to be a criteria for that trainer to be able to teach a puppy class. While one trainer can teach a manners class for adults dogs and do very well but that same trainer can do a lot of damage to your puppy if their class is not structured appropriately. It is very important that you understand that puppies learn a lot from how they play with other puppies and can affect their play styles with all of the other dogs that they play with in the future which can lead to real aggression. Just because a puppy class has 20 puppies in it does not make a great puppy class.  How can anything be taught in a class with 20 puppies, how can the trainer effectively manage 20 puppies or even be effective in their training methods.  Another tip is to observe the puppy class that you would like to attend before you get your puppy.  If the instructor does not allow you to observe the class then go somewhere else.  The instructor should have nothing to hide and will welcome any observers if what they are doing is good for the community of puppies and their people.  Make sure that the puppy class is based on positive reinforcement which does not just mean throwing food at the puppies to teach behaviors.  Ask the puppy class students if they are happy with the results they are getting and most important pay attention the puppies themselves.  Are they comfortable, are they able to do what the owner ask of them and do the puppies pay attention to the owners.  How can we expect to have a puppy we can enjoy if they can’t even do a sit with another puppy in the room or other people.

My new client with his puppy is very frustrated with what he got as far as training for his puppy.  He has had several dogs in the past and had pretty much done all of the training himself and said that all of his dogs were great family companions and were all well behaved when out in public.  If as trainers we are preaching that it is very important to socialize our puppies so they can be confident and well behaved adult dogs then this persons experience with the only puppy class he has ever attended has been a nightmare for him then how is that going to make puppy classes attractive for any client when after the puppy class their puppy is worse than when he started this is not good.  We as trainers have a duty to these puppies and our clients to make sure that the experience of a puppy class is not only socialization opportunity but a learning opportunity as well.  It makes no sense just for the sake of filling our classes as full as they can be to just make a few extra bucks if we are doing damage in the process to these puppies.  So the next time you are out for a walk and see someone with a very well behaved adult dog you might just ask this person who did the training and at the same time compliment them for having such a well mannered dog and watch them light up with pride.

Side note…… I was working with a very beautiful dog today who is both reactive to both people and other dogs.  We were working in a very calm park setting with a very calm neutral dog.  We were pretty close to a walking and bike trail when a guy rode his bike right past us.  He looked at this beautiful girl and said what a nice dog.  Even though she is not mine I was very proud to be handling her and said to him with great pride as she just watched him very calmly “thank you” and yes she is a very nice dog then we just calmly walked away.  My client and I looked at each other and said yes she is a very nice dog………


Dennis Fehling

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